Monday, September 28, 2015

Is there any alternative road in life?

Hello!!! I'm super excited to start my first blog, i hope it won't be the last one. Before i start, i want to mention, that I'm not a writer, journalist, psychologist, I'm not a professional at all. I'm just a curious guy and a beginner in blogs. So this will allow me to write what i am feeling at the moment, i will just give my opinion, i can be wrong or right, and i can have grammar mistakes, that's for sure!!!
Let's get started. Since a young boy, I've been looking for the alternative sides of mostly everything. My main phrases i said to my parents and teachers would be: "why this?" "Is there any other way?" Unfortunately, i always got bored easily, from a friend talking about his stuff, to a teacher trying to give a moral. Everything about life is repeating the same routine, with different people, places as you go on aging. And that was/is my biggest fear, is there any other way to escape from this?? Of course, it doesn't mean you can't have a great time meanwhile, i think that depends in choosing people and the places, but, is that so possible? As a kid and a teenager, is not so possible, because somehow you don't think about that, and you don't have so many options, at home is your family, at school you will see your classmates, in your free time, you would meet your best friends. So, we can say that we all lived our childhood in a bubble. Of course, we were growing and our parents had to take care of us and was their obligation, I'm just trying to give an overview. That's why between your childhood and teens you want to be older to chose what to do and with whom you would like to be in your life. But...can you really do that? Are you choosing or the society is choosing for you? Well, we start the university, or working, and what? Yes another big bubble appears, we will see the same people, we will have more responsibilities, and again appears new routines, new circles, less free time. You know somebody, you date, you get married, etc. I'm not saying this is bad, or that life sucks, I'm trying to say that put it like this life seems very boring. We are very limited, we follow what is established, there is no escape. I guess, that the only break you can take in life is to try to find to do what gives you pleasure, passion and try to make a living out of it, or not, but this is our treasure, otherwise we would be screwed. But let's try to be screwed stylishly. Let's try to travel, to know new cultures, new people, to listen to other languages, to eat exotic food, to get inspired and to see how beautiful and amazing is this world, and to be thankful to be alive, and that despite we follow the laws and rules, we know that the real life lives inside us: emotions, love, pleasure, etc. All these things comes from inside us, from inside others, and from what inspire us: art, music, nature, for example. So i think that everything that bring us that inner peace, at least for a while, are the little breaks we can get from this tough life. In conclusion, i think the alternative road is inside us, and nobody can take it away from us. We have to work hard trying to stay positive and knowing that we have a shelter inside us that can protect our self from any badness or negativity. I'm working on this, it's an exercise and takes time, it's not easy, but is much better than to be involved in all the bad energies or giving up and being swept by the wave of the madness of the society.
Well, i don't know how i got here, but i was needing to express it, i don't know if it makes any sense or not. And i swear this paragraph has no edition, everything came spontaneously. Stay strong, and have good day!!!

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